Mai hāʻawi i kāu pōpoki i ka hapalua o ka hāpai ʻana

1.He mau manaʻo ko nā pōpoki. ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou e like me ka haʻihaʻi ʻana i kona puʻuwai.

ʻAʻole nā ​​pōpoki liʻiliʻi me ka manaʻo ʻole, e ulu lākou i nā manaʻo hohonu no mākou. Ke hānai ʻoe, pāʻani a hānai iā lākou i kēlā me kēia lā, e mālama lākou iā ʻoe e like me ko lākou ʻohana pili loa. Inā hāʻawi koke ʻia lākou, piʻi nui lākou a kaumaha, e like me kā mākou e make ai kahi mea aloha. Loaʻa paha nā pōpoki i ka pau ʻana o ka ʻai, ka lethargy a me nā pilikia pili i ka hana ʻana i ko lākou nalo ʻana i nā mea nona. No laila, ua aʻo mai ka ʻelemakule iā mākou mai hāʻawi maʻalahi, ʻoiaʻiʻo, no ka mahalo a me ka pale ʻana i ka manaʻo o ka pōpoki.

2.Pono ka manawa no ka popoki e hoʻololi i kahi kaiapuni hou, a ʻo ka hāʻawi ʻana aku i kahi kanaka ua like ia me ka "huhū"

He holoholona ʻāina nui nā pōpoki a pono lākou i ka manawa e hoʻoponopono ai i ko lākou kaiapuni hou. Inā hoʻouna ʻia lākou mai ko lākou home kamaʻāina a i kahi ʻano ʻē, e hopohopo nui lākou a hopohopo. Pono nā pōpoki e hoʻokumu hou i ko lākou palekana a kamaʻāina i nā wahi hou, nā mea nona nā mea hou a me nā hana maʻamau, kahi kaʻina e hiki ai ke pilikia. Eia kekahi, hiki i nā pōpoki ke kū i kekahi mau pilikia olakino i ko lākou hoʻololi ʻana i ko lākou kaiapuni hou, e like me ka maʻi ʻana mai nā hopena koʻikoʻi. No laila, ua hoʻomanaʻo mai ka ʻelemakule iā mākou ʻaʻole e hāʻawi i nā kānaka, akā e noʻonoʻo pū i ke olakino kino a me ka noʻonoʻo o ka pōpoki.

3.Aia ka ʻike maʻamau ma waena o ka pōpoki a me ka mea nona, ʻo ka hāʻawi ʻana i kekahi e like me ka "haʻalele"

Ke hoʻolilo ʻoe i ka manawa me kāu pōpoki, hoʻomohala ʻoe i kahi pilina kūʻokoʻa. Hoʻokahi nānā, hoʻokahi neʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o kēlā me kēia. No ka laʻana, i kou hoʻi ʻana i ka home, holo ka pōpoki e aloha iā ʻoe. I kou hoʻomaka ʻana e noho i lalo, lele ka pōpoki i kou ʻūhā no kahi puliki. Hoʻoulu ʻia kēia ʻano ʻike i ka wā lōʻihi, a he waiwai nui. Inā hāʻawi ʻoe i kāu pōpoki, e uhaʻi ʻia kēia paʻa, pono ka pōpoki e hoʻokumu hou i kahi pilina me kahi mea nona ka mea hou, a e nalowale ʻoe i kēia paʻa kakaʻikahi. Ua ʻōlelo mai ka ʻelemakule iā mākou ʻaʻole e hāʻawi aku iā lākou, ʻoiaʻiʻo, makemake ʻo ia e mālama mākou i ka ʻike huna ma waena o mākou a me ka pōpoki.

4. He lōʻihi ke ola o nā pōpoki, no laila, 'aʻole kuleana' ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou.

ʻO ka awelika o ke ola o ka pōpoki ma kahi o 12 a 15 mau makahiki, a hiki i kekahi ke ola a hiki i 20 makahiki. ʻO ia ke ʻano o ka noho ʻana o nā pōpoki me mākou no ka manawa lōʻihi. Inā hāʻawi mākou i kā mākou mau pōpoki ma muli o nā pilikia pōkole a i ʻole pilikia, a laila ʻaʻole mākou e hana i kā mākou kuleana ma ke ʻano he mea nona. ʻAʻole hewa nā pōpoki, ʻaʻole lākou i koho e hele mai i kēia home, akā pono lākou e lawe i ka hopena o ka hāʻawi ʻia ʻana. Hoʻomanaʻo mai ka ʻelemakule iā mākou ʻaʻole e hāʻawi iā lākou, me ka manaʻo e hiki iā mākou ke kuleana no nā pōpoki a hele pū me lākou i ke ola.